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Wednesday, April 27, 2011

8 traits that Men find attractive in a Woman

Goes without saying – her smile can set our hormones raging with hunka hunka burning love. It’s like a magnet that draws our attention.

Let’s face it, no dude like a manly woman unless the dude’s having a serious sexual orientation issue. We are drawn to this simply because deep down inside, we’re small children and need your loving! Hence – the more delicate, soft, kind-hearted and caring you are, the more we love ya! But of course, it must come with confidence and not weak or overly shy.

Yowza! Need I say more? At times I wonder how the men living in India find their women attractive because almost all of them have deep low voices which is  a turn-off to most men.
But of course, lucky Mel has one good enough to put up with my crazy antics. We’re not saying that you should be able to make people laugh until snot comes out from their noses, but to understand and laugh at jokes.

Being down-to-earth and not high maintenance are turn-ons for men. We equate high maintenance to being snobbish bitchy character that will just be as annoying as a pimple on your face.

Weak women make us puke – hence strong personality coupled with her ability to make her own sound decisions are definitely a plus. But, please note there’s a difference between strong personality and being just plain ass stubborn.

Definitely! That’s why you see some women go all out to improve their eyes by wearing colored contact lenses and all that jazz. They know that some men can simply fall in love with the woman’s eyes – as the eyes say everything.

I always preferred women with long hair (pass the shoulders) because it’s feminine. All that talk about women having short hair is plain hogwash. Sure, you can have short hair when you’re older because you have passed the sell-by-date. Real men prefer women with long hair.

Is there other traits that you can think off? That question is directed to men ONLY, because women’s perception towards men liking stick figures and all the BS that the fashion world led them to believe is skewered.

Saturday, April 23, 2011

How to Attract Young Women, or Mature-Aged Women...

Do you find it difficult to talk to young, beautiful women - especially in bar environments when they're being all giggly and energetic? You're not alone. Almost every guy on the planet would LOVE to be having more sex and more relationships with young, beautiful women - but, they simply don't know how to handle them.
Today I'm going to reveal a unique and powerful technique that I use, which allows me to attract & maintain the interest of young, beautiful womenGenerally speaking, younger women have less EXPERIENCE than older women when it comes to sexual courtships and the ins and outs of dating, love and relationships. To a younger woman - being giggly and energetic may be her best way of socializing and expressing her happiness with meeting you in a social situation.
If you can't 'vibe' with her on that sort of level, then she might see you as 'weird' or 'boring'. Another interesting thing to note is that a younger woman may LOVE watching movies where Hollywood stars demonstrate passionate, mature and exciting sexual courtships, but will be CLUELESS as to how she can make it happen for herself in real-life.
The social inexperience of a younger woman may leave you thinking that she isn't interested or doesn't like you. However, it is more likely that you are reading her signals incorrectly. Generally speaking, a mature-aged woman will have had more experience with dating and be able to give you more OBVIOUS signals of interest, so attracting women of that age will seem easier.
A more mature-aged woman might also express her happiness with you by using more 'interested' facial expressions, body language and tonality and engaging in longer and more meaningful conversations with you.
Now, I've been using the term 'generally speaking' here, because as you may have experienced, some younger women are very mature, sexually and socially. I'm 31 and one of my girlfriends from last year was 21 years old. She understood things about dating and sex that you'd expect from someone much, much older.
When we FIRST met, our conversations and interactions were fun & flirty for the most part. Eventually though, they also included a lot of 'deep and mature stuff.'
Here's the thing...
If you aren't currently attracting the interest of women between the ages of 18-27, then you may simply be going about it in the wrong way. Here's an example of what I do to adjust to the age of the women I'm speaking to...
I was recently coaching a client on how to approach & meet women in bars. As we 'vibed' with two younger women in a popular city bar, there was an old, black & white cartoon playing in the background on a big screen. The two younger women were very energetic and giggly, so I geared the conversation towards the cartoon and the funny things that cartoon characters do, for about one or two minutes.
We all had a good laugh. We then we talked about some 'normal stuff' relating to the bar we were in, for a minute or two, and then went back to talking about some other 'fun stuff.' One of the key elements of my conversations with women, is that it makes women feel a VARIETY OF EMOTIONS.
In the case of those two young women we met, I was simply talking to them about ALL SORTS OF STUFF, in a way that they could relate and contribute to. Later, my client commented with amazement about how the two women became interested in me immediately and wanted to keep talking.
I let him know that the interaction would have most likely DIED IMMEDIATELY if I had focused the conversation on 'normal, boring stuff' or on 'deep and mature stuff' and then expected them to WANT TO stay there and experience that sort of vibe.
Those two women had a different energy level and different way of interacting with people, so I simply ADAPTED to the situation in order to be successful. If you want to begin successfully attracting and dating women of all ages, then you're going to need to learn how to be FLEXIBLE with your approach.
I'm not saying that you shouldn't 'be yourself', or that you should pretend to be interested in talking about cartoons. One of my favorite subjects to talk about is science, but 99% of women don't want to talk about it in bar environments!
...especially younger women.
So, I adapt in order to be effective. Then, once you begin DATING, most women will be KEEN to find out more about you, what you think about life, the topics that interest you and where you're going with your life. However, before you even get to that very enjoyable place, you're going to need to learn how to adapt and explore interactions and conversations based on the UNIQUE INDIVIDUALS you meet.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Using Sexual "Chemistry" To Attract Women

When I first made the decision to learn how to become more successful with women and dating, one of the first things I did was meet and learn from guys who were ALREADY masters in this area.
I watched with my own two eyes as these guys approached women, started conversations, and created "chemistry"...right in front of me.
I would ask these guys questions about how they did it...and they'd answer with all kinds of different answers.
The truth is that most guys who know how to attract women will think you're a little WEIRD if you ask them how they do it.
To a "natural", it's OBVIOUS how to attract women. If you ask a NATURAL how to meet women, he'll say "just go over and start talking to her." As if it's that easy...
As you can imagine, this created a little bit of a problem for me.
I could SEE that these guys were able to attract women... and I could literally watch it happen over and over. But when it came to EXPLAINING what they were doing, most of these guys just didn't know how.
Well, the more I watched, and the more I asked...and the more I TESTED what I was learning from these guys, the more I began to realize that the reason they couldn't exactly explain what they were doing is because what they were doing was mostly NON-VERBAL.
It was a combination of several different types of "signals" they were sending to women... that these guys just "understood."
After a lot of study, testing, and trial-and- error, the picture began to come together for me...
What these "naturals" were doing was speaking a DIFFERENT language with women. It was a language that no one had ever actually described or explained to me...
The most interesting part?
As I started to do research on the topic, I found that even though this stuff was right out "in plain sight", no one had ever really noticed or DESCRIBED it.
To make a long story short, I took this new "secret" information that I discovered, and put together an entire program to teach it to other guys...
As far as I know, this is the only program of its kind ever created. In fact, I get emails all the time from guys who say that just one time through this program instantly changed their views on women and attraction...and allowed them to spark attraction and build "chemistry" or "sexual tension" with women in every type of situation...again, IMMEDIATELY.
I call this little-known language "Sexual Communication." I feel that it's one of the most important keys to success with women. In fact, I think that much of my success with women and dating is the direct result of learning and understanding this ONE concept.