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Saturday, May 24, 2008

10 Mistakes Men Outhere Probably Make

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really
attractive women never seem to be attracted to
"nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive
female friends that always seemed to date
"jerks"... but for some reason they were never
romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how
"nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do
because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION
for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that
powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of
logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET
OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on
it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that
you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman
that they REALLY like... but she's just not
interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel
differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER
CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO
ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently
about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that FEELING by
being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,
plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or
Permission
In our desire to please women (which we
mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys
are always doing things to get a woman's
"approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men
who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to
like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well
means "always getting her approval and permission
for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval.
Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their
approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if
Wussy guys who chase her around and want her
approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With
Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a
nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had
her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her
even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a
LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear
message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so
I'm going to try to buy your attention and
affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to
women as over-compensation for insecurity, and
weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I
said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most
men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too
early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive
women are being approached in one way or another
ALL THE TIME by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several
times a DAY by men who are interested. This
translate into dozens of times per week, and often
HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of
men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women
off and sends her running away faster than just
about anything is a guy who starts saying "You
know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two
dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like
all the other guys who fall for her too fast...
and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For
Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes
to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman
he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based
mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five
full years now, I can tell you that women usually
have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by
things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more
average and unattractive men with beautiful women
than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities
in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man
makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and
communication correctly, you can make women feel
the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you
that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young
woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how
to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make
is giving up before they've even gotten started...
because they think that attractive women are only
interested in men who have looks and money... or
guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a
certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only
interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a
man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women
like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use
them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just
because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use
your body language and communication correctly,
you can make women feel the same kind of powerful
sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you
see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look
to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys
use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like
them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can
walk all over... Women aren't attracted to
Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than
men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for
example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and
you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and
exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there
looking at her and getting nervous, she won't
help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and
dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking
her out, kissing her, getting physical...
everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation,
you will probably screw it up... and LOSE
EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY
how to go from one step to the next with a
woman... from the first meeting, all the way to
the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from
EVER having the kind of success with women that
they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look
weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I
figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the
fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and
get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a
woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get
up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that
night... right on the spot I made the decision to
do whatever it took to learn how to be successful
with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all
kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all
out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get
her number almost instantly. I've dated models,
I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal,
regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no
longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I
don't know how to meet women... and I might wind
up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and
meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and I've done
seminars on both coasts of the United States...
and taught tens of thousands of men all around the
world.
In addition to this email newsletter, I also
have a killer downloadable eBook that you can
download and be reading in literally MINUTES
from right now.
It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of
specific strategies for overcoming fear,
approaching women, getting phone numbers and email
address from women quickly, great inexpensive or
even free date ideas, and how to take things to a
"physical" level smoothly and easily.

1 comment:

  1. ummmmm...

    this is kind of a new "great" blog.....^_=

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