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Friday, September 12, 2008

How to Ask a Woman Out

Did you notice how she started to GIGGLE
at every silly comment or joke you made? This
is exactly the level you want to be at with a woman:
When she starts to think "He's so cute".
If you did, then you are finally getting it how to
TURN UP the heat and create attraction.
To answer your question "how to ask a woman out",
I want you to think of something first.
How do guys ask women out in general?
How have YOU asked women out in the past?
Can you remember what you said? Could it be
that you may have said something like this:
"Listen, would you like to have a drink sometime?"
"Why dont you give me your number?"
"Do you want to go to the movies with me tonight?"
"Can I invite you to dinner?"
"You wanna hang out?"
I bet most guys have USED some of these lines
before to ask an attractive woman out on a date.
I want you to be aware of something really
important here. You see, most men are so alike
they always use the same lines over and over
again. Now why on earth would you want to use
the exact same stuff EVERYBODY ELSE uses
as well?
Does that make you different?
Does that make you stand out from the
Does it make you original?
Of course NOT. One of the KEY lessons
you should have learned from my free e-courses
is to be DIFFERENT!
If you are indifferent, you are just like
any other guy out there and this doesnt
really make you interesting to women,
does it?
Next time you want to ask a woman out
on a date, first make sure she feels the gut
level of attraction towards you first. Then you
can pretty much say anything like:
"Hey I need to go shopping tomorrow,
wanna come along? You can carry my bags
IF you're nice".
See how women can smile so widely on
that one little comment and LOVE you for the
rest of their lives.
Be different and dont act like you are
desperate and needy for sex! Be cool, relax
and treat her like she is your bratty little sister.
If you dont really care if she tags along or not,
it will definitely come off very naturally.
Women dont want to go out with a guy
who is insecure, needy and says that he
really likes her on the first date. This will
only freak a woman out!
Next time when you are about to ask a
woman out, ask yourself if you have created
enough attraction BEFORE you go for it. If
she doesnt feel the same way towards you
as you may to her, she will decline॥

p//s...thazz the best part of my everyday's flirt ^_=...

Friday, September 5, 2008

Playing Hard To Get With Women

you've probably met a lot of women you were
interested in but took you some time to actually get somehwere,
be it a number, a kiss or a full-monty.

It took some extra effort and light pushing to get that woman.
Now my question ... what is REALLY going on here. Why do women
sometimes play hard to get?

Basically, women do not want to come off as "easy" or "slutty".
That's why they set barriers and don't let guys any further
if a certain amount of time hasn't passed yet.

For example:

- When you try to speak to a woman,
they try to blow you out

- When you make an attempt to kiss them,
they are a bit hesitant

- When you want to get to 3rd base, they
push you away but still want to make out.

You know what all these signals mean?
They only mean one thing:


The slut-factor kicks back in or in other words,
she is actively thinking that "it isn't the right time yet".

Yes, she does want you to keep going but it is up to
her how far she will let you. But a "NO" doesn't mean
that you should stop right away and leave her be, hell no!

Just take a small step back, and after a couple of
minutes take 2 steps forward. If she says "NO" and
pushes your hand away, don't let it bother you and
just think "ahhh, she isn't ready yet ...let's chill
for a while and after 5 minutes ... it's on again"

I'll talk about persistence in another newsletter
but for now, you will need to know what you are dealing
with first.

All this behaviour is called "playing hard to get".
When a woman is being hard to get, you know what

It makes you want her even MORE

That's what we call "being a challenge".

Now let's turn the tables:

You see, women are not interested in men that are EASY to
get either. If she knows that you

a) would do ANY-thing to get her,
you aren't much of a challenge

b) generally don't have a lot of options,
you aren't really interesting

Look, it's pretty simple: Women always like what other
women like. If a girl sees some guy that has 2 women
on his arm (and doesn't behave like ... pardon my french
... a gaylord), they will automatically go "mmhh, check him out".

But if some nice-guy comes up to her and says
"Hi gorgeous, can I buy you a drink", the challenges is all gone.

Women always want what they

a) cannot have, and

b) isn't easy to get।